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Yetis

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Gbarton

I've been dating this girl for 4 months now, we had our first argument on saturday. Before that we had never fought, never had an argument, had great communication, up until Saturday. Was really nothing serious at all, didn't yell, degrade each other or call each other names or anything like that, just kind of an off-day. I had messaged her later that day, pretty much apologizing for the way the day had gone, but also just trying to give her reassurance that yes even though I was a little off that day, I did still love her and care about her. Well that night she was pretty upset, I had texted her and asked if she got the message. She replied yes, I just got home from work and I'm really tired, I'm just gonna go to bed. So I said "Ok, are we ok?" She replied "Honestly, Idk... I'm tired and I need to go to bed" I said "Ok I love you" she replied "I love you too. Goodnight" I said "Can we please just talk about this I don't want to go to bed mad" her reply was "I really just want you to leave me alone." This response literally floored me, she's never said anything like that to me before. She said "We'll talk tomorrow." Well tomorrow was yesterday and I sent her a message last night saying "I'm ready to talk whenever you're ready, just to put that out there." I never got a response. I messaged her sister and explained the situation and she said she does the same thing to her when she gets mad, she's just really upset, just give her time, let her text you. I have no problem giving someone time and space but isn't there a fine line between cool off time and when it starts to slide into the silent treatment? I just don't know how to take all this because I've never fought with her before, so I don't know how she handles these kinds of situations. I just don't know what to do from here... I don't want to act irrational if all she really needs is time, but isn't say 24 hours a good enough time to collect your thoughts and come back to meet a resolution and work through the problem? I don't like games, and I don't believe in fighting silence with silence but I'm really just at a loss of what to do here. On one hand she needs her time and space I understand that, but at the same time I don't appreciate feeling ignored and shut out which is what she's doing. I left the ball in her court but really don't know what to do from here. I haven't sent her a message since last night when I said "I'm ready to talk whenever you are." I don't want to message her again and make her more upset, but really how much time is enough time? We're both 25 and I'm baffled because I feel like this is a high school game... Any suggestions, or ideas? Anyone else been through this. All this seems to do is just make a small situation worse.

Mayumi

I have been in a four month relationship with a girl I met online. We hit it off right away on our first date. I bought her flowers on the date and as soon as I saw her I knew she was the one I had to have. I had to gather my composure before saying hi and gave her the flowers. I did most of the talking for the night but we got along well and she initiated the first kiss and I was awestruck. We carried on seeing each other and made it official like 3 weeks in and I was so excited to have her as mine.

Stodder

I think OP making male friends would help. You would get better at socialising with them.

Angelia

Ok, now I have made a suggestion, a statement even.